It seems (at least from the outside, internet portal from Canada) that you are in the process of crafting a life very deliberately now. Which involves having had a good wedding (which is now done and over and you don't have to do it again ever unless you want to!) and being married and taking care of your brain. And also figuring out what parts you want in this life, which is like step 2 of crafting!

Awkward cards are love, as are just "HEY IT CHRIMMAS AND I THOUGHT OF YOU!" cards. <3